Sweet and simple?

Here's something that got me thinking.
A moment ago, I was chatting with a friend on MSN, and he told me that I was a girl who belonged to the dreamy kind.

Dreamy kind of girls only consists of 2 types.

1.Not thinking about anything at all, just staring into blank space. (albeit blur)

2.Thinking about too much stuff, hence appearing dreamy cos too deep in thought.

So I told him I belonged to the former type, and he half-opposed my view.
Why?
Because usually i belong to the former, however, when anything crops up, I belong to the latter.

I din think of it this way, because I always feel that my mind's blank.
Even when thinking about stuff, I will unconsciously have this urge to push them right out of my mind.
Motto being, why stress myself? Constantly thinking too much stuff just makes one overly paranoid.
And the thing is, I'm paranoid enough as it is.

So he told me to remain sweet and simple, I hope so.
I don't want to remain sweet and simple and have pple stepping all over my head, yet I do not want to become a complicated person wary and paranoid of everyone around me.
Sighs, sometimes life makes it hard to tell the diff between the good and bad yeah?